Looks Like I’ll Have to Share the Stuffing This Year

November 14th, 2023

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Thanks, everyone who prayed for my wife to get her visa. They gave it to her this afternoon in Lusaka.

It’s an annoying story. They promised a response within 5 business days and then made us wait two weeks. It’s actually worse than that, because they didn’t do anything at all that we are aware of until she showed up yesterday at the embassy to find out what was going on.

I think they would have let our application go for weeks had she not visited the embassy. I believe we would still be waiting, and I also think she could have gotten the visa last week if she had gone earlier to shake them up.

She had a dream this morning. She was at her grandmother’s house, and a tall Arab dressed in white traditional clothes showed up and bombed the place. Somehow she knew he belonged to her church and attended regularly.

He had arrived on a private plane, and he left on one. He had authority behind him. He was rich.

It sounds bad, but her relatives on her dad’s side curse her and each other all the time. It’s a popular pastime in Zambia. When something good happens to someone in your family, you kill a chicken or whatever and curse them.

The immigration system is weird, as anyone who has seen luxury hotels full of illegals could tell you. I had to pay a new immigration fee today in order to get the green card processed. They should give you a green card when you get your visa, but they make you pay separately.

Looking for flights is annoying. We want her to go business class this one time in her life (until I croak). For $7000, I can get a somewhat better selection. For $5000 or less, I get a research project.

Orbitz offers a bunch of acceptable flights, but when you select one, it disappears or increases in price by a sizeable factor.

Skyscanner is supposedly one of the best flight sites now. We have also used Kayak a lot.

I found an acceptable flight, so we are all set.

Guess it’s time to shop for a turkey.

8 Responses to “Looks Like I’ll Have to Share the Stuffing This Year”

  1. Steve in Idaho Says:

    I am glad Rhodah got her visa. Now for the green card, yet another insane hurdle for your wife.

  2. Ed Bonderenka Says:

    Congrats!

  3. John Bowen Says:

    Hallelujah! May the Lord continue to bless you both.

  4. OdC Says:

    Congratulations, in time for Thanksgiving and Christmas!

  5. Sharkman Says:

    Excellent news.

    God bless you both infinitely.

  6. Ruth H Says:

    Hallelujah, the best news I’ve heard in weeks! Blessings on her travels and your reunion.

  7. lauraw Says:

    When something good happens to someone in your family, you kill a chicken or whatever and curse them.

    Classic crab-bucket situation. You two defeated them together. The new family you have created is the stronger one.

  8. Rachel Says:

    Steve, if you had a “LIKE” button, I would click it. 🙂