Self-Help Preachers Deliver Believers From Their Cash
All sorts of amazing things are happening in my life. All the things I started to suspect about the Holy Spirit about 20 years ago are turning out to be true, and I’m also learning that many conventional notions about God are wrong.
It can be frustrating, seeing things work for me and then being unable to convince other people to try them. But at least I’m getting mine! I would rather see everyone move forward, but if I can only help myself and a few others, I’m still doing something worthwhile. Fixing one life is a major achievement, and that’s especially obvious when that life is your own.
The Jews say that if you save a life, you save a nation. That’s a reference to the descendants who could have been erased. But when Christians interpret that saying, they take it a step further. We believe a person can have spiritual descendants who are not related to him genetically. We believe we are spiritual descendants of Abraham. I suppose if I help two or three people, they may go on to help a lot of others. So I should not be concerned.
Jesus managed to get through to 12 primary spiritual heirs, and then he added Saul of Tarsus. He did pretty well with that small group.
This morning I started thinking about the fatherless. Who are they? I’ve always taken this term to refer to people whose fathers have died. But is that right? I don’t think so. Biblically, it refers to something else.
Generally, human parents do a bad job. They don’t pass on useful knowledge or habits. They would rather watch TV and waste time in stupid, worthless, selfish pursuits than get involved with their kids. They don’t know who their children’s teachers are. They squander the money they should have passed on. They provide horrific examples. And the things we inherit from them–their legacies–are corrupt and disappointing. Some of the things we inherit are addictions and filthy character traits. Instead of being blessed by what they pass on, we may be poisoned.
Proverbs 13:22 says a good man leaves an inheritance for his children’s children. But what does that mean? If you don’t pass on a big pile of money when you die, are you unrighteous? I don’t think so.
What is an inherited fortune? Is it money and possessions? Is this what you really want to inherit from your parents? It shouldn’t be the main focus. Because if you receive these things, without receiving the ability to make use of them, they will be a curse to you. You’ll lose your money. You’ll be surrounded by people who contemn you and take advantage of you. You’ll spend on things that bring you no advantage.
On the other hand, what if your parents raise you correctly? What if they put you in touch with God, teach you good habits, force you to become educated, and show you how to earn and handle money? What if they pack you with useful wisdom that blesses you every day of your life? You’ll be blessed all the time, regardless of what you possess at a given moment.
Miami is full of rich Cubans. Almost none of them were rich when they got to America. Many were rich in Cuba and lost everything when they left. How did they get it back? The answer is simple. They took their inheritances with them. Their real fortunes were inside them. They had the skills and knowledge and habits of successful people, so as soon as they got away from socialism, they began to succeed again. This is why charity is so frustrating. Take a thousand random people, separate them from their money, turn them loose in a foreign country, and in ten years, the poor ones and their kids will generally still be poor, and the rich ones will be rich again.
This explains what the word “inheritance” means to me, in Proverbs 13:22. It means things of lasting value, accumulated over time. If you have a real, lasting inheritance, the other things–money and possessions–will come to you in time.
This is the essence of conservative thought. Liberals think they love the poor because they throw other people’s confiscated money at them. Conservatives know that mindless charity is harmful. You may look righteous and feel wonderful about yourself when you give a bum twenty dollars, but then you’re not around to see him smoking the crack you bought for him. You don’t see the junkie aspirate the vomit you bought for him.
Conservatives know that the best thing you can do for a poor person is to motivate and empower him to care for himself. We know that money plus poor people equals more poor people, unless the money is spent correctly.
Christianity goes beyond mere conservatism. Spirit-filled Christians know that merely thinking about the best way to help the poor will not get us far. Only the Holy Spirit can tell us what to give and whom to give it to.
On Saturday, a bum waved a cup at me while I was driving. I don’t just look away from bums. That’s cowardly. I looked right at him and shook my head. He needed to know that his guilt trips weren’t fooling everyone. He needed to have that knowledge inside him after I drove away, so he would question his choices. Shame is the beginning of growth. It is spiritual penicillin.
Later in the day, I had an opportunity to help someone out, not just in the natural, but with prayer and practical, applicable knowledge concerning how to get blessed by God. When I shook my head at the guy with the cup (who was probably a drunk), it was done in public. The things I did for the other person were done privately. Only three people will ever know what I did. That’s how Christianity is. It’s not about grandstanding and winning approval. It’s not about singing in a charity video, which drives millions of people to your concerts and makes you even richer. It’s not about performing in a telethon and crying and hugging babies for the camera. It’s about doing what the Holy Spirit tells you to do, and counting on God to decide what the proper reward is.
Our parents raise us poorly. They don’t give us the tools we need to become blessed and stay blessed. Only God’s transforming power can keep us prosperous and happy. Parents can’t do it. They fail as a matter of course. So in a sense, we are all fatherless.
The Psalms say that when our mothers and fathers abandon us, God will take us up. They say he will guide us with his eye (this is a gift of the Spirit, which comes through prayer in tongues). They say he will deliver us from our enemies and teach us his ways. I now believe this is what God means when he says he will be a father to the fatherless. He has a magnificent inheritance prepared for every one of us, and we are supposed to receive a huge down payment right here on earth, but we can’t get it as long as we expect other people to take care of us, or as long as we expect to be able to take care of ourselves.
God gives advances. Read Paul’s writings, and you’ll see it. Think in terms of earnest money and down payments. The language is there, right in front of you. The fruit and the gifts of the Spirit are advances on the inheritances we will receive, in their fullness, in paradise. With them come earthly blessings like health, peace, and success. Jesus said we were to seek God’s kingdom and his righteousness, and that then the other things would be added to us. “Kingdom” refers to the gifts of the Spirit, which are God’s power. “Righteousness” refers to the fruit of the Spirit, which are God’s righteous nature. These things will come into us as we drink the “living water,” which means praying in tongues.
God is our GPS, and like GPS, he works through signals that originate outside us. If you don’t turn on the receiver, expect to keep driving in circles.
In my church, some people are getting this, and many are not. We are distracted by intinerant teachers who give great speeches but don’t know anything. We have a real problem with self-help gurus coming in, disguised as holy men. These guys come in and pump us up with positive thinking and material stolen from Werner Erhard and the Landmark Forum and Dr. Phil, and they try to tell us it’s Christianity. And we buy their expensive DVDs, books, and seminars.
They always give some stuff away, because that makes them look generous. Give away a nickel in order to make a dollar. But they sell, sell, sell. And we buy.
Real Christianity cannot be learned in a seminar. I think Tony Robbins is great, and you will probably get some benefit if you pay him money. You will probably benefit from any positive-thinking coach, to a limited extent. But Jesus is FREE, and his path is SIMPLE. You don’t need a ridiculous seminar. You don’t need to think positive. You don’t need stupid slogans. You don’t have to run around shouting, “My SINKING is caused by my THINKING,” or, “My bank account will RISE because my EYES are on the PRIZE,” or whatever.
I just made those up, by the way, so don’t bother Googling them. We hear things that are just as dumb, so I felt entitled to make up a couple on the fly.
Here’s how real Christianity works. Here is real power that will save you and your descendants and fill you with power. Admit you sin. Admit you can’t help yourself. Accept Jesus. Get baptized in water. Get baptized with the Holy Spirit. Then pray in tongues as much as you can stand, every day. THAT’S MY SEMINAR. I will not charge you a thousand dollars a day to sit in a smelly hotel ballroom and be emotionally abused by cynical “trainers.” I will not tell you you’re not allowed to get up and pee. I will not sell you a $2 DVD for $50. I will not torment you for four days and THEN TELL YOU THERE IS ANOTHER SEMINAR YOU HAVE TO TAKE, IF YOU REALLY, REALLY WANT TO MAKE JESUS HAPPY AND SEE YOUR WARTS FALL OFF.
I used to wonder if God would give me a ministry that would make me money. I wondered if that would be my job. But there’s just no way. Everything I know, I just gave away in six sentences. There’s nothing left to charge for! I’m totally serious! Take those six sentences and RUN! Don’t ever read this blog again, unless you feel like it. You know every truly useful thing I can teach you. Do what I say, and God will do the rest.
You want a Proverbs 13:22 inheritance? You want wisdom other people have accumulated over the courses of their lives? Here’s a juicy piece: anyone who calls himself a life coach or motivational speaker is almost certainly useless. The true goal of a life coach is not to help you change your life. The true goal is to CONVINCE YOU TO OVERPAY HIM FOR BAD ADVICE.
Take that to the bank. It’s gold. I will gladly repeat it while they’re lighting the wood to burn me at the stake.
You want proof? Pay a life coach thirty grand, attend his seminar, and then fail as a human being. See if he comes to help you, while you’re holding the razor to your wrists. Obviously, he won’t. Your misery will mean absolutely nothing to him, in the unlikely event he ever learns of it. He’ll be busy nailing other suckers. Now, pay a life coach thirty grand and then cancel the charge on your credit card. WOW, will he spring into action! Lawyers! Collection agencies! Credit bureaus! The works, baby! Where his treasure is, there his heart will be also!
Here’s what the con artists say: change your thinking, and you will change your circumstances. Here is what God says: “Not by power, nor by might, but by my SPIRIT.” Positive thinking never healed anyone of anything. It never raised a single dead person. It never got anyone God’s favor. Those things come through faith, and faith is not positive thinking. Faith is a supernatural belief that pours through you after you’ve been baptized with the Holy Spirit. It is the Holy Spirit himself, believing and letting you share in the sensation. It is not the same thing as ordinary belief.
Positive thinking just helps you to do better with your natural tools. Faith activates God’s supernatural tools. Positive thinking didn’t part the Red Sea. Supernatural forces did, in response to one man’s willingness to walk by faith.
If your parents blew it, forgive them. You shouldn’t have relied on them in the first place. At their very best, they could not have done what only God can do. God will be your father, for real. He will fix. He will repair. He will restore. He will be with you–inside you–moment by moment. God is all about the present and the future, so don’t glue yourself to the past and blame the people who let you down. Move on, as you were born to. This is the single best reason to forgive people. Living in resentment, bitterness, and unforgiveness is like trying to drive while looking out the rear window. Every good thing God has planned for you is in the other direction, and unlike the things behind you, they can be changed.
If you want to send me thirty grand, I would sure appreciate it. After all, I saved you airfare and a nasty hotel bill. But if you choose to be stingy instead, I forgive you. Mr. Holy; that’s me.