{"id":12760,"date":"2019-03-29T23:30:46","date_gmt":"2019-03-30T03:30:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/toolsofrenewal.com\/?p=12760"},"modified":"2019-03-29T23:30:46","modified_gmt":"2019-03-30T03:30:46","slug":"be-my-guest-at-your-peril","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/toolsofrenewal.com\/?p=12760","title":{"rendered":"Be my Guest at Your Peril"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>The Devil Doesn&#8217;t Want You to Visit Me<\/em><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s surprising how much work is involved in leaving this earth. I always look forward to leaving my obligations behind, but it&#8217;s a mess for the survivors.<\/p>\n<p>God has blessed me by streamlining things extremely well, so taking care of my dad&#8217;s final arrangements isn&#8217;t as bad as it could be.<\/p>\n<p>I donated all of his clothes to the Salvation Army. I got him cremated. I deposited his will and a death certificate with the court. I arranged for him to be buried. I deleted his Facebook account.<\/p>\n<p>I looked up the rules of probate court, so now I have some idea how I should handle things.<\/p>\n<p>I wanted to have a gathering tomorrow for friends here at the house. Things are not going well for the people I intended to invite. My friend Mike had a toe amputated over the weekend, two days before my dad died, and now he&#8217;s penned up in live-in rehab for 11 days. My friend Amanda got the flu or something like it, and two days ago, her temperature was 102.4.<\/p>\n<p>My friends Leah and Scott decided to come and stay Saturday night. She just texted. She has been in a wreck, and she is getting an x-ray.<\/p>\n<p>Something doesn&#8217;t want people to hear my dad&#8217;s testimony. I would appreciate it if people who read this would pray for the opposing spirit to be defeated.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn&#8217;t matter, because Satan can&#8217;t come up with a roadblock God didn&#8217;t know about in advance. However things shake out, Satan will be disappointed.<\/p>\n<p>It appears that my dad&#8217;s car is the only thing that will have to go through probate. Today I read the applicable laws, and it turns out the law exempts two vehicles per decedent. I&#8217;m not sure what &#8220;exempts&#8221; means. I assume I&#8217;ll still have to tell the judge the car exists, but there must be some benefit. Maybe the court will give me a letter authorizing me to have the title changed.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, I intend to keep driving it. It appears that the intent of the law is to avoid confiscating cars from people and forcing them to buy new ones during probate.<\/p>\n<p>One surprising thing is that I feel love flowing through me more freely than I did before my dad changed. I have been praying for this for years. He used to be a bit like a porcupine. When people tried to love him, he provoked and upset them, so it was a challenge. That changed when he changed.<\/p>\n<p>Since he moved out in January, I have developed the habit of talking to the birds just to have noise in the house. I talk about how much I love my dad and what a wonderful father he was. The more I do it, the more the love flows. I&#8217;m so glad he didn&#8217;t die while there was tension between us. I&#8217;m hoping the flow of love will continue. Christians need to love God and other people. It&#8217;s not a pleasant luxury. It&#8217;s a need.<\/p>\n<p>Unequal yokings can make it hard for love to pass through. You have to be very careful who you get close to.<\/p>\n<p>I feel a little better every day, and I slept all night last night. God is faithful to heal and help.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Devil Doesn&#8217;t Want You to Visit Me It&#8217;s surprising how much work is involved in leaving this earth. I always look forward to leaving my obligations behind, but it&#8217;s a mess for the survivors. God has blessed me by streamlining things extremely well, so taking care of my dad&#8217;s final arrangements isn&#8217;t as bad [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[16],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12760","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-god"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/toolsofrenewal.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12760","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/toolsofrenewal.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/toolsofrenewal.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/toolsofrenewal.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/toolsofrenewal.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=12760"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/toolsofrenewal.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12760\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/toolsofrenewal.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=12760"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/toolsofrenewal.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=12760"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/toolsofrenewal.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=12760"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}